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WARNING SIGNS OF CAREER STALKERS THAT ARE AMONG US…AND IT COULD BE YOU AND YOU DONT EVEN KNOW IT

Before we begin on a journey of the symptoms of annoying stalkers.  I must say and promote… anyone that even thinks of stalking me and showing up at my door… You may not make that 10:00pm bus.  People who stalk have a very low self esteem with a lot of obsessive behaving like:

Calling everyday!

Writing threatning notes or messages!

how about getting mad at you for little shit that means nothing to a dog!

Showing up at your door!

I dont know you motherfucker… Why are you calling me and I never gave you my number?

Why are you creating a love affair between you and I…. and I dont like you or  attracted to you?

and GEE! why do you want what I have?

ooooh! the best of all… BIPOLAR bitches that lie to get attention from others… There crazy as a fox and they dont know it.  They get into fights with people to defend themselves when they are caught doing shit and fucking  lying when they know its wrong.

okay bitches here we go! Here is my HOMMAGE to stalkers

Stalking is a term commonly used to refer to unwanted, obsessive attention by individuals (and sometimes groups of people) to others. Stalking behaviors are related to harassment and intimidation. The word “stalking” is used, with some differing meanings, in psychology and psychiatry and also in some legal jurisdictions as a term for a criminal offense. It may also be used to refer to criminal offences or civil wrongs that include conduct which some people consider to be stalking, such as those described in law as “harassment” or similar terms.

If you read nothing else on this site, please take the time to read this section.  It is extremely important to be aware of the following traits of stalkers. These will alert you to the possibility that a potential suitor or even a friend or acquaintance could become a stalker.
 
Stalkers will not take no for an answer.

They refuse to believe that a victim is not interested in them or will not rekindle their relationship and often believe that the victim really does love them, but just doesn’t know it and needs to be pushed into realizing it. As long as they continue pursuing their victim, the stalker can convince themselves they haven’t been completely rejected yet.

Stalkers display an obsessive personality.

They are not just interested in, but totally obsessed with the person they are pursuing. Their every waking thought centers on the victim, and every plan the stalker has for the future involves the victim. Ask yourself this. Is the person totally involved in and completely overwhelmed with pursuing someone who has no and never will have any interest in him or her?

Along with obsessive thinking, they also display other psychological or personality problems and disorders. They may suffer from erotomania, paranoia, schizophrenia, and delusional thinking. According to Professor R. Meloy, “these stalkers have rigid personalities and maladaptive styles. These disorders in themselves are very stable and not treatable.” There are drugs to treat certain specific mental disorders, but stalkers, when given the choice, seldom continue with their medication or treatment.

Most stalkers don’t have any relationship outside the one they are trying to re-establish or the one they have imagined exists between them and their victim. 

Because they are usually loners, stalkers become desperate to obtain this relationship

Stalkers don’t display the discomfort or anxiety that people should naturally feel in certain situations.

Normal individuals would be extremely embarrassed to be caught following other people, going through their trash looking for information about them, leaving obscene notes, and other inappropriate behavior displayed by stalkers. Stalkers, however, don’t see this as inappropriate behavior, but only as a means to gain the person’s love.

Few stalkers can see how their actions are hurting others.

They display other sociopathic thinking in that they cannot learn from experience, and they don’t believe society’s rules apply to them. Most stalkers don’t think they’re really threatening, intimidating, or even stalking someone else. They think they’re simply trying to show the victims that they’re the right one for them.  To the victims of stalking it is like a prolonged rape.

Stalkers, like rapists, want absolute control over their victims. They don’t regard what they’re doing as a crime, or even wrong. To them it is true love, with the exception that the victim doesn’t recognize it yet. With enough persistence, stalkers believe they will eventually convince the victims of their love.

Stalkers many times have a mean streak and will become violent when frustrated.  How violent? 

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